I have been on a journey for the past 7 years. One where I have discovered many, many things about myself, like, I am not dangerous to myself or others, that I am worthy, and how shame was the underlying driver for most of the choices I made throughout my life. You know, the soft easy stuff.
In that time my marriage dissolved and I entered into a new relationship. AND we have broken-up. Not because we don’t love each other, we just realized, I realized, I needed a new place to stand, and it has been intense! Okay what else is new in my life. Here is the difference; I continue to engage, with everything moving inside of me, and with the man in my life, feeling my way through this process, to become MORE!
It has opened the door for a new conversation about what WE means. In an old paradigm, we meant someone had to give up some part of themselves to create a whole. This is not what I am talking about. I’m talking about an invitation to discover what it means to create a new space called WE, all the while knowing I am still ME. To be whole in mySELF and deeply, intimately connected to another.
