Insights

    The Gender Conversation

    The density and complexity of the gender conversation is so thick and full of chaos, I had to get lost in it to see the importance of it. We are so immersed in it, we cannot see the grip that it has on us. We don’t recognize the choices we are making and think we are trapped in a life that we don’t want, or don’t have a choice in. When in fact it it me keeping my Self there.

    In last night’s experience in conversation with women I experience of ‘how we define ourselves through gender and associated roles,’ how we either turn our rage outward towards our spouses/partners or in our ourselves and all the accompanying emotions and sensations that go with it; despair, rage, frustration and shame. And I also discovered the collusion that takes place within me in the company of women. That is how deep the conditioning is, it is so subtle. Gender is not about us and them; it has been that for so long it’s hard to see it’s in every choice and interaction we make with every breath. 

    In my desire to get to the heart of the discussion I realized for myself that I also contribute to the ongoing madness. The not calling ourselves out in the rant, just to notice we are in the rant to discover more »
    Community

    The WEL-Systems® body of knowledge is a living, growing, expanding organism that continues to evolve as each Affiliate and CODE Model Coach™ engages in her own evolution. Every program and conversation experience with those who choose to live their lives choice point up has to potential to expand the body of knowledge.

    On this page you will find links and reference points where you can choose to engage your life differently with others who are committed to their own evolution.

    Affiliates
    Naomi Irons ~ Conversations from within
    Sheila Winter Wallace – A Reiki Master Teacher and Full Initiator in Ancient Hawaiian Huna
    Noreen Mejias-Bennett – Guides people along an awakened journey of self-discovery and expansive,majestic living.
    Leona McIsaac Moran - Engages with others through her own business Choice Points

    Click here for more upcoming community events and experiences more »

    Your Journey

    If you are reading this, your journey has already begun. Some part of you has guided you here so let’s talk. Your journey can take many roads; there are books you can read, and CD’s that you can listen to, check out my favorite resources.

    You can also choose to engage by:

    Are you ready, able and willing to engage with me as you pursue reclaiming and getting your life back?

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Feb 8/12 Question of the Day

Am I waiting for events to unfold in order to engage my life? OR Am I willing to engage every sensation, feeling, mood as it presents to see where I am willing to take my Self?

Quote of the day

As we begin 2012 this quote seemed appropriate: Follow the three R’s

1. Respect for self

2. Respect for others

3. Responsibility for all your actions

~18 Rules of living by the Dalia Lama~

Sites and Sounds

KC Baker – When Women Claim the Public Stage

This is an amazing video by KC Baker. The line that caught my attention is we can live in a world where there is no scarcity of shining… Enjoy