I have been in the inquiry of ‘what does it mean to co-create differently with a partner? And, how to apply the bullets from the WEL-Systems® Institute Declaration of Evolution by Intention™,
Who we must continue to become:
- An opportunity to engage life differently through:
– A call to women to lead and co-create with men differently;
– An invitation for men to relax into new ways of being;
- A ‘wave’ or ‘movement’ for creating living, organic collectives that thrive on the uniqueness of the individual and his/her impact when choosing to ‘Engage!”
I have been in the process of discovery, one that has revealed, in order to co-create with another I must first be willing to be intimate with mySelf. I have to admit I didn’t always know what this meant. Over the last 14 months or so I have been revealing intimacy to mySelf, and with another in the dance of co-creation.
It began with me taking the word relationship off the table. I did this because the word came with to many ties, strategies and expectations. It was the only way I knew how to unbind mySelf, to discover a different way to co-create and BE with another. This is where intimacy began to reveal itself to me.
I discovered my willingness to reveal the hidden conversations that took place inside of me, usually in my intellect, had to be revealed out loud, not just to mySelf. I had to be willing to abandon any expectation of outcome and reveal what I had guarded so fiercely to my partner. Each time I chose to engage in the reveal, letting go of outcomes, I was taken to places and spaces I never knew existed.
What I am now experiencing is living an expression of deep connection and intimacy with mySelf represented in the dance of co-creation I engage in with my partner.
This is a whole new paradigm of engaging with a partner, mate, spouse; where, as each of us chooses to declare what is deeply meaningful we redefine how to BE with each other.