I will attempt to capture in words what is moving through me in this moment. Once again I stand at the precipice, only this time there is no hesitation to jump. Why? Because I know I am the one that is creating the experience for mySelf.
I have entered the realm of no guide, no road map, no instructions, the only thing moving me…propelling me forward, is the impulse that resides inside of me. I am redefining how I live my life on all fronts. For now I will talk about breaking new ground. I am about to embark on a journey that no one else has taken, to spend five days in the company of what stands right now as four men willing to go first to discover what there is for us to discover about ourselves. This is an important conversation for me!
For the past two years I have been facilitating experiences with women only. Why? Because women are hungry and know there is a different way to be and in these experiences they discover what that is for each of them. And I have felt, for a long time, that if we are to co-create differently with the men in our lives they, also, should have the opportunity to engage in this way. The question has always been what will it take? What will it take for men to engage differently with themselves, and then with others? So I put the call out, I put the stake in the ground to see if I could find a minimum of four men willing, and able, to be in a different conversation about who they are and the lives they have created for themselves.
Four men have answered the call; four men are willing to engage with me. Am I excited? I cannot even begin to describe the sensations moving inside of me and I know in this moment I am carving out a very different future for mySelf. This is what I know, these men are all aspects of me, just as I am an aspect of them. Yes, I am the one to engage in this conversation, just as they are the ones choosing to go first in their world.
I have no guide, I have no expected outcome, how can I this is the first conversation of it’s kind. It feels right and I know when I emerge from the five days I will be different, as will they, and we all get to choose moment by moment just how far each of us is willing to go to discover the more that resides inside, hidden deep beneath all the rules and roles that we have been taught, willing to carve out a very different life for ourselves.
Life does not get any better than this… I’ll see you on the other side!